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Hi, I'm Doctor Safia
I'm a registered psychologist and life-coach on a mission to nurture change and to empower my clients through personal development.
Based in South Africa
Online Sessions Available

About Me

Since childhood I’ve naturally gravitated towards people and caregiving roles, so when it came to choosing a career, psychology was an obvious choice for me. I consider myself to be amongst the blessed few whose passion and purpose in life merge beautifully to allow me to truly enjoy being a psychotherapist.

I’ve completed all my training, from pre-graduate to Doctoral level, at the University of Pretoria in South Africa. I went on to work as an academic, teaching students in psychology for over 10 years. I’ve been privileged to be able to gain experience with teaching students from pre-graduate level till Masters Degree level. I’ve been involved (in various capacities and roles) in training Masters students who are becoming Psychologists themselves. In the process I was able to hone my theoretical understanding and therapeutic skills.

Beyond the academe, I have been in practice since 2005. First as a psychometrist and later as a psychotherapist as I progressed in my career. I have worked in a private practice setting as well as in clinical and corporate contexts. The variety of contexts that I’ve been exposed to has allowed me to work with a variety of age groups, from doing play therapy with very young children to counselling with adults.

Along the journey, I’ve gained a deep understanding and great appreciation for the change process that psychotherapy is. Tracking the stories we tell in our everyday lives as we move from where we are to where we want to be. Most importantly, I’ve learned to appreciate the journey of growth that is reflected in our life stories. It has been the privilege of my life to walk this journey of growth with people over and over again and to be able to observe the process of watching people flourish into their most evolved selves.

My Approach to Psychotherapy

I would describe myself as a Psychotherapist with a special interest in nurturing wellbeing and purposeful living through self-development. I want to help people reach the highest expression of themselves through understanding and then managing the storyline that is their life. I am deeply passionate about supporting quality of life, and the relationships that constitute our lives - one of the few aspects of life that we may actually be able to control.
Therapy is very much a partnership between therapist and client, with each of us sharing part of the responsibility of contributing to a successful therapeutic relationship. As the therapist leading the process, I am able to bring to the process my knowledge of mental health.
I use a combination of theoretical approaches, selected to best suit your needs in the moment to reach therapeutic goals.
No one knows more about you than you do, so you are always considered the expert of your own life.
Your commitment to the process and genuineness in engaging it are essential. I think my responsibility lies in guiding you through the process, providing good feedback, asking questions to help you think about your situation from different perspectives and teaching you good coping skills.
I think your responsibility in therapy is showing up, being honest, and following through with our good ideas outside of session. No one other than you is able to actually take action in changing your circumstances.
My personal goal is to channel my love and appreciation for growth by leading sessions with my clients with compassion and empathy. Growth is almost never easy but almost always worthwhile!

My passion and niche as a psychologist is to nurture potential by supporting my clients through reflection and change processes. I live this through my personal philosophy of: “if you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you're getting”, right?

Services

Individual psychotherapy is a one-on-one discussion between myself as the therapist and the client, who is the person seeking treatment. Individual counselling or psychotherapy (often referred to as talk therapy) is a process through which clients work one-on-one with me to explore aspects of their lives that they would like to change, improve or gain a deeper understanding of. This could include working through past experiences or memories, current situations, feelings, beliefs, behaviours, personal challenges, influential memories, setting personal goals, and working towards building their desired lifeworld. We form a therapeutic relationship that together, enables mutual trust and personal growth.

Family or group counselling is intended to establish a sense of wellbeing and stability within a family/group context. Creating a sense of security within a family allows for each individual family member needs to be fulfilled so that they may each reach their optimal potential. This often requires families to embrace a change process which becomes a key focus of the family therapy process.

Psychological assessments are designed to help gain clarity into an individual’s functioning in specific areas of development as well as their strengths and weaknesses. An assessment can be conducted on many different areas of functioning, such as: intellectual functioning, cognitive functioning, learning capability, academic skills (reading, writing, mathematics, spelling), visual-spatial skills, emotional functioning and behaviour. Assessment results are helpful in gaining insight into a person’s functioning and thus allow for better recommendations and more effective psychotherapy.

Couples or marital counselling is intended to support optimal relationships through resolving interpersonal conflicts and establishing common goals for the relationship. The foundation of this counselling process is to develop a deep understanding of one’s partner, their personality, their values and their needs and then learning to use that knowledge to support each other’s well being and achieve satisfaction. Developing self-knowledge and the skills of emotional regulation (to manage one's emotions) are key components of the couples counselling process.

Grief counselling aims to support people who have been exposed to trauma or are grieving some form of loss. This may include loss such as grieving after the death of a loved one, coping major life changes (such as consequences resulting from The COVID-19 pandemic or events such as divorce) or coping with traumatic events (such as violent crime or gender-based violence).

In these situations where grief and trauma are the outcome, a wide range of emotions may be experienced. During psychotherapy, we explore these emotions in order to process them and gradually work towards acceptance of the changes you may be presented with in your life. As the psychotherapy process progresses, we aim to establish new meaning in your life.

Career guidance is a service whereby I provide support to young adults and adults regarding selection of a career path and decisions around career progression. Career guidance requires a combination of a healthy level of both self-knowledge and career-knowledge. I use narrative career counselling techniques regularly to support clients to foster these knowledge bases in order to effectively provide career guidance. Psychometric testing is also utilised extensively to provide effective career guidance.

Study skills coaching is a process of supporting students to develop learning and memorisation techniques that are most suitable for their personal learning styles. Each person processes information in unique ways and understanding your unique processing methods as well as learning structures helps in retaining and meaningfully implementing knowledge. See the learning styles questionnaire for an indication of what study skills coaching may offer you.

Life coaching is different from psychotherapy in that it focuses on different components of development. Psychotherapy focuses fundamentally on mental health and wellbeing and is a longer-term process. Psychotherapy places an emphasis on the past and developing introspective skills to reflect on one’s life to be able to resolve issues.

Coaching on the other hand is more future orientated, supporting clients to clarify life-goals, and navigate a path to reaching those goals through identifying potential obstacles and working through them. Life coaching does not require a diagnosis of any disorder as psychotherapy usually does. Rather, it is an action-orientated approach that requires the client to demonstrate agency and self-motivation to reach goals that they set for themselves.

One of my passions is to be able to teach. I’ve had the opportunity to do so over the past decade through lecturing psychology students at various levels. Professional supervision allows me to nurture my own passion while providing a valuable service to colleagues through supervision. My choice of supervision model focuses on supporting psychologists to develop the professional/therapeutic skills and the master the process of understanding their clients’ perspectives to be able to deliver a meaningful counselling service.

FAQs

My practice rates are based on standard hourly rates within the Republic of South Africa (RSA). Clients residing in South Africa can choose to make payment either via their medical-aid funds or cash (bank EFT or PayPal payment).

Psychology tariffs are based on a sliding scale of 10-minute intervals, with the average length of a session being 60 minutes. The current cash rate of this practice is R900 an hour. Consultation fees are payable at the end of each face-to-face or telepsychology consultation.

Typically, people benefit from counselling when they have issues in their lives that act as barriers to allowing them to live their happiest and most successful lives. At times people request counselling when they have a feeling of being dissatisfied with their current lives. Counselling can also be a supportive space to allow you to grow into a role/version of yourself that you aspire to be.

Yes, I do. My practice relies heavily on telepsychology which included telephonic and video sessions. That means that I use a variety of online platforms (telephone call, Skype, Zoom, Teams, Meet or even Facetime) depending on my client’s preferences and convenience.

Yes, I do. I am located in Pretoria (South Africa) and I can happily book a face-to-face session with you should you prefer to come in for a session or meet in person.

Yes, I am operating through the pandemic. Thanks to the ease that technology provides, I have continued to consult with my clients throughout the COVID pandemic via online consultation. As the lockdown restrictions have eased up, I have begun seeing clients in person again as well – maintaining physical distance.

It is quite normal that some people feel slightly awkward during their first session. The good news is that this usually lasts a few minutes only. As I guide you through the process you will become orientated with the process (and familiar with me!) and that usually helps to alleviate any awkwardness or anxiety. You are most welcome to request an orientation call.
No, you don’t. This is a common concern for new clients. Remember it is my job to lead the session and direct your focus as we navigate issues in your life. If you feel you could benefit from counselling, then simply book a session and I will guide you through the rest of the process.
I am proficient in all counselling approaches but usually choose a counselling approach based on my client’s needs and their immediate concerns and therapeutic goals. My favourite approaches, that I feel are most broadly applicable, include Narrative Therapy, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Brief-Solution Focused Therapy and Gestalt Therapy. Most often therapy modalities are used simultaneously and interchangeably.

Yes, I do work with children. One of my niche areas is psychotherapy with children and supporting their developmental processes on various levels to ensure well-rounded development.

Play therapy is a form of therapy used primarily for children. Since children usually do not have the ability to process or articulate their emotions, play is used to allow them a space to express themselves and process their emotions.

While it may look like an ordinary playtime to the casual observer, play therapy is much more than that. I use play to observe and gain insights into a child’s emotional world. We then explore their emotions through guided play to support them to work through their emotions, possible unresolved trauma and develop new coping mechanisms. In doing so, the child’s emotional world may be optimised, with the intent to lead to greater wellbeing.

A psychological assessment aims to evaluate thinking, learning and behaviour. The assessment may include interviews, clinical observation that I make during a session, psychometric testing and consultation with other professionals involved in your child’s care. The purpose of a psychological assessment is to understand the client’s internal world and capabilities in order to guide learning and development further.

Psychometric testing may include nationally or internationally standardised tests (pencil and paper tasks), as well as projective assessments and at times structured games. An assessment may be conducted to cover many areas of development or skills, such as general intellectual level, language, memory and learning, problem solving, planning and organization, fine motor skills, visual spatial skills, and academic skills (reading, math, spelling and writing) and psycho-social functioning.

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Free Learning Styles Indicator

This special tool can be used as a questionnaire to assess your own preferred learning style or styles. If you complete the questionnaire it will give you an indication of your dominant learning style/s, i.e. if you require more visual, auditory or kinaesthetic stimulation to learn optimally. Your learning style is also a reflection of how you perceive things and the way that you relate to the world. There are no right or wrong answers to this questionnaire. For more in-depth help with study skills feel free to contact me to book a session.
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Children’s Self-Esteem

This article serves as a guide to the topic of developing your child's self-worth and how parents can help foster healthy self-esteem in their children. With 14 suggestions on what to do.
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